:err:DishOutlaw said:I have to agree with most people here on this one. I think even those that don't spank still do, so saying I don't believe in spanking is just for social status. !
Believe it or not I have never spanked my children either. I don't apologize to anyone regarding how I raise my children and this feel no need to hide anything. I'm sure that some people do spank but don't admit it. On the other hand make a statement like "I think even those that don't spank still do" is reckless.
In this particular case it is definitely not sexual. Wrong, yes, but not sexual. I know that some fathers do sexually abuse their kids but this dude is not getting off on it. He really does think that he is doing the right thing. I believe that he does it and that he truly does not know what else to do. It doesn't work so IMO he should definitely stop if for no other reason that t's ineffective.NancyM said:No one should be spanking a 17 year old girl. I honestly think a man who spanks a 17 yr old girl is getting some type of sexual thrill out of it, I don't care if it's her father, uncle, priest,grandfather, or teacher.
He is wrong but for sure but he is not doing it for sexual pleasure I just can't stress that enough. I don't expect you to believe me but if you knew him and knew their history then I really don't believe that you would say that. I don't have the kind of time or desire to tell you their whole story but again it's not sexual.