Recent content by MomoJA

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    Road side memorials?...

    We have them where I live. I've seen them for as long as I can remember, but they are usually somewhat temporary, meaning they eventually are worn away by age, 10 or 15 years or so. I can understand why the authorities would remove them from places where people were murdered, especially...
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    New to site - Aunt raising nephew with PDD-NOS...

    He feels safe with you. I know that doesn't really answer your question, and it doesn't help with the situation, but it is the "glass full" way of seeing it, if nothing else. There are some parents on this site who have experience with autism. I don't have first hand experience with it, so...
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    Let's Lighten Up People...

    Amazing, XOX. Congratulations! I just started eating better since Mardi Gras. I'm down a couple of pounds and I feel proud of myself. I can't imagine the sort of dedication you've had to demonstrate!
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    Any advice works...

    I second everything M2M and bssage said. I know that you are seeing it first hand and it is annoying, but it's a tough position the kids in. I agree with bssage that you might want to actually encourage his "instruction" of you when it comes to the baby. It could be your great bonding moment...
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    in a funk?...

    I'm sure this is fairly normal, but it breaks my heart. I've had quite a killer cold and the doctor prescribed something with hydrocodone in it. I took it until Sunday afternoon, and I hated it. I was irritible, antsy, generally out of sorts. Since then, I've been feeling just off. I feel...
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    SPANKING revisited...

    This is something I've wondered about when I see these sorts of "traumatic" experiences "PROVEN BEYOND DOUBT" with regard to spanking. Either the "spanking" was administer for no reason except as an experiement, and by whom? Or it was not ever administered. Or I don't know what. It doesn't...
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    SPANKING revisited...

    And I can so respect your point of view.
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    SPANKING revisited...

    I just wanted to clarify that I wasn't the one who made mention of this. I remember the comment being made but I wasn't sure I understood the point of it. I'll have to go back and look at it, but I, personally, do not think that any particular religion sees spankings any more or less part of...
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    SPANKING revisited...

    Thanks bssage. That's exactly it. It is a bit of overkill, to understate the fact, and it is an ineffective form of argument. It only undermines the argument. I completely understand why some people disapprove of spanking. I don't do it myself, not so much because I disapprove, but because I...
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    Being patient during pregnancy...

    My baby was induced. She was large for gestational age and I had polyhydramnios. This along with my age and other factors had me seeing the maternal/fetal medicine specialist every week toward the end of my pregnancy. At 37 weeks 2 days according to my reckoning of conception, she measured at...
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    SPANKING revisited...

    And I rest mine. Black and white view = simplistic, close-minded view.
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    SPANKING revisited...

    First, just so we are clear. I don't spank my child. However, I think it is none of YOUR business if I did. Second, your understanding of the comment about sex and rape being different reveals it went over your head. I'm saying they are not on the same continuum. If you believe they are then...
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    SPANKING revisited...

    That's exactly what he implied. There is a direct line from those abuses to spanking - that is more than implied in his line of argument. Spanking is the "last hold out" of this sort of abuse. If he is not implying that, why put it in a spanking argument? I say one has nothing to do with the...
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    Re: Hello...

    I would record it and start by calling CPS. If they don't act, and we know that sometimes no action is taken witnessed by cases of report after report being ignored until the headlines read that a child was killed after having been ignored by CPS, so if they don't act, I would contact the media...
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    SPANKING revisited...

    Your comparisons are simplistic at best. Intentionally oblivious at worst. And your understanding of "historical fact" is erroneous if you think that commenting on the "feelings" parents from over 600 years ago had about their children is a fact. That's the first error in the argument. The...