I remember being angry at my parents and complaining almost the same way she did about how they think I'm the maid, and I never get anything, and I want to be paid for my services, and how I hate cleaning up after them lol ( just minor chores, wiping counters, sweeping floors, doing dishes) And they were the kindest most generous parents alive! Teenagers are self centered egotistic humans, that's how it's suppose to be..
The only difference here and the way teens acted in the past say 30/40 yrs ago is that today everything they say and do is publicized through the internet. (Who expected your dad to publicize your punishment and show the world how bad a teenager you are?) Look how people are talking about her now thanks to dad, when even though most of us (who are honest), probably felt the same way about our parents when we were her age. And some of us cursed too.
We keep saying how she should have known that what ever she says will be permanent record, and she was a fool for saying it there. But what about the adult DAD? Didn't he realize the permanency of his actions? How foolish is he than.
The only thing that has changed between the generations is the electronically world, kids today are born into it, we weren't. That's how they communicate and it really isn't their fault. The internet is natural for teenagers, can any of us for just one moment think about any 15 yr old who has never been exposed to an electronic?
Imagine, no computer knowledge, no cell phone, no ipod, no digital anything!!! Of course not, I wouldn't be surprised if that might even be considered a form of abuse, how could a child keep up with learning in school, or researching, or even looking up a book at the library without being able to use modern devices. I bet most of us would consider that child odd, or slow or just not normal.
My point is that the teenager was acting like a teenager. Yes what she said was rude and she should have been talked to about it, and probably have her computer privileges taken away again. That's what parents do, over and over and over again...
I hope the dad is finished with his frustration and doesn't shoot anything else..I wouldn't be surprised if he pops up on some TV talk show soon, being a hero and all.