Questions for those who propose spanking within the scientifically established limit of <3 per month to prevent harm.
Is the parent to keep careful records to insure that they don't exceed the limit?
If the kid commits the 3rd offense that would normally be punished with spanking in the same month, what method do you use? If this is an effective method why not use it all the time and give up spanking? If this is not an effective method, why don't you learn the effective methods and use them? Would it not be more consistent to use the alternative method all the time rather than switching back and forth?
If the kid always so good that he never commits three spanking offenses per month, that seems like a pretty good kid. Couldn't you use the other alternative effective techniques on a kid that already has pretty good behavior?
Is the parent to keep careful records to insure that they don't exceed the limit?
If the kid commits the 3rd offense that would normally be punished with spanking in the same month, what method do you use? If this is an effective method why not use it all the time and give up spanking? If this is not an effective method, why don't you learn the effective methods and use them? Would it not be more consistent to use the alternative method all the time rather than switching back and forth?
If the kid always so good that he never commits three spanking offenses per month, that seems like a pretty good kid. Couldn't you use the other alternative effective techniques on a kid that already has pretty good behavior?